Apelover42's bio

My Story: I grew up in the 70’s. My father was an alcoholic who beat me with a leather belt, and my mother was a martyr (still is) who was always crying. I sought love and understanding in the arms of older men who told me that they loved me. I was only 12 when I had my first sexual experiences and became very promiscuous as a result of all the attention it got me. I smoked a lot of pot and tried various drugs, but only stuck with the pot. I loved sex. I loved the attention. In 1980, I found out that I had contracted genital herpes and my whole world changed. I was 18 and finally woke up. I had slept with probably a hundred guys by the time that most young ladies were having their first sexual experience. Now I had the plague…at least that’s how I thought of it. I don’t remember having much sex until later, when I met my husband. We were married 8 years and had two children. He didn’t care about the herpes, all he wanted to do was screw. I never liked sex with him because he didn’t take care of his body. Well, I won’t go into the gory details, but he never got herpes and is now living happily ever after…somewhere else. I have had only two sex partners since him and have been up front with both of them. I did go on a few dates with someone and told him a bit too early, but I’m glad I did. On our next date, he brought a bunch of literature about barrier underwear and ultra thick condoms. I wasn’t that excited about sex with him. I think he was married anyhow. Needless to say, I postponed dating altogether about 5 years ago. I started counting the odds against me ever finding anyone to spend the rest of my life with and got discouraged. I’m 42 (almost 43), I have two teenage boys, I’m tall, but weigh 250 lbs, I’m stubborn as all heck, I’m not financially stable (but who is anymore?), and I have the creepy crawlies. Well, the heck with this! I’m going to just have fun with my kids and enjoy life, even if alone. I’ll just have to get a big purple hat! On the other hand…if you know any single guys…perfection not required.  One more thing…I love Gorilla’s, Orangutans and Chimps. If you want to make me really happy, just show me a big Ape.